She's not ready for a relationship! What to do?

She wants to make sure that she has left all the crap from her ex behind, she is doing the right thing. you don't want to get in to anything serious with a girl who is till carrying baggage from a previous relationship. You need to ask her out as planned but when / if she says no you need to say to her that you understand that she might need more time and that you are prepared to wait for her.